Changing Relationships

You can change your relationship with anyone by sending the person good thoughts. If harboring a grudge about someone, take a moment to realize that YOU choose to see what unfolds before you. When you choose negative thoughts, you will get negative in return. Your thoughts are extremely powerful and flipping to positive can produce a chain of miraculous events, paving the way to an amazing life! Here are some simple examples:

  1. My spouse is undesirable. My spouse is kind and enjoyable.
  2. My daughter is lazy. My daughter is helpful and radiates fascinating potential.
  3. My son will turn out just like his dead-beat dad. My son has many good qualities. I am thankful for the man who gave him life.
  4. I have terrible neighbors. My neighbors are friendly and considerate.
  5. My boss is uncaring. My boss cares when approached in a positive manner.
  6. My coworkers are awful. I appreciate the people at my job site and know I have the power to change the environment into whatever I desire.

What if the negative words crossed out above didn’t exist and we were never taught the meanings. Without having knowledge of those words, could our thoughts automatically always be positive?

Make a list of your favorite pleasurable words; practice thinking the words and speaking them. When a negative thought comes into your mind, gently push it aside and replace it with your free happy words. The benefits are worth millions!

Choose Positive, KJ

Hello World!

As a first time blogger and natural introvert, I am feeling the mixed emotions of  vulnerability by publicly sharing my thoughts and excitement of the possibility of helping others live happier, more peaceful lives. After being mesmerized by books about spirituality and positive thoughts over the long winter months, I am freshly motivated to launch my dream of writing manuscripts of my own. Consistent on-line advice about future endeavors with publishers lead me to hosting a blog. It’s an ironic day for me to begin. News of an old friend and a recent acquaintance both losing their husbands, leaving teenaged children behind and my own son crashing on his bike tonight have baffled me on how to maintain a positive aura. Gratitude comes to mind. For now, I will be thankful for the beautiful lives created from the two men that now exist within another dimension and for the injuries that will make my son realize that life will go on if he misses playing in one soccer game as he heals. Gratitude will reveal the meaning and the purpose of the manifestations within our lives. Whether initiated as joyous or sorrowful thoughts, we have the choice to determine the eventual impact upon us. The death of my baby and then of my sister in child birth began as devastation, but eventually brought me together with my two adopted children into an incredible life of perpetual love and learning. By reading the words upon my blog, and practicing the daily art of positive thinking, I hope you too can immerse yourself into the beauty that is waiting to surround you.

Choose Positive, KJ